The female sex. Tan, hair done, nails painted, perfume, closet full of clothes, and make-up on her counter. They try to flatter their curves, height, and special features to make them stand out to the opposite sex. They would like to be wanted.
The male sex. Muscular, big trucks, tools everywhere, car knowledge in their mind, and tense jaws when ready to fight. They want to be needed.
This is how the world goes round.
Should a girl be incapable of opening a jar they will cry “honey”. A girl that can’t change a tire dials his number. When a girl needs to cry she needs that shoulder to cry on. A guy wants to protect, to provide, and to be the rock. He wants to be needed.
Girls would like the male to want to introduce her to his family, for him to think of her in the back of his mind all the time, to make her his baby mama, and to be there when he needs someone to be vulnerable to. She wants him to call her because he wants to hang out. Chase her, because boys chase what they want.
The problem?? These needs and wants might confuse people.
Just because a guy shows interest does not mean as a woman that you have to automatically invest in a relationship. This does not mean to develop feelings just because of a little interest. Do not fall for slight attention. Know when you’re falling for the attention and when you’re falling for the actual guy.
And just because a girl can take care of herself at times does not mean that she does not need you in her life. A little independence is good so appreciate it because she won’t become annoying. She keeps you for those especially hard moments in life when she needs true comfort. She needs you in order to keep her happiness. That’s ten times better than her needing to know how to boil water.
But the world goes round. Relationships end and begin in continual chasing for to be needed and allowing to be chased for to be wanted.
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